Argument notes

1. The vicious cycle (fucking up, avoiding confrontation, assuming I will have gone psycho bitch and overreact, get defensive, and make me incredibly mad by avoiding me and getting defensive, then calling yourself right for assuming that I would overreact. The thing I am reacting to is different in this case you idiot.)
2. Assuming I am attacking your weed habits when I ask you to spend time with me in the room, since you interpret me asking you home is a ploy to distract you from your weed. So you respond defensively and be mean about it, and come home an hour even after you say you would, then make all this talk about how I am trying to change you, when I was the one who thought that smoking would help your stomach pain and I just wanted to spend time with you while I was sick
3. Not showing that you care - not calling/texting/visiting me throughout my sickness, and put the things you want to do over the things I want to do while I am sick (I try to get in contact with you constantly and worry about you when you are sick. you don't even five a shit)
4. Being extremely condescending by treating me like I am a dog with rabies and avoiding me for as long as you can, then blame me for being mad.
5. Impossible for you to accept fault - deflecting your responsibility on other things: stomach pain, weed, forgetfullness, acid, my response, me, friends... These things might still be a factor, but they don't take away responsibility from you. Start taking responsibility for yourself, and stop putting it on other things. And you asked for my empathy, and here it is: I would not get rid of responsibility either if I were in your position
6. Acting like everything is fine when it is not fine. Everything is not fine. I will not forget about it when you hug me. I don't want you to hug me right now. Stop hugging me.
7. Lying to me: saying that you'll be back at 12.30ish and coming back an hour later, saying that you'd visit me during the day and not coming.
8. Not trying to understand where I am coming from, and trying to push me back at any point you can.*This is the shit that hurts me. Just let your pride to the side and fucking listen to me! If I am more experienced, I am more sensitized to things that I know will hurt me, and desensitized to other things that I know will hurt the relationship. Appreciate this, and try to learn from the things that I say will hurt me when they are about smaller things so they don't get bigger. Also, don't project your responsibility on this too - if I am getting mad, it is because you fucked up, not because I am over-sensitive.